You’ve had a recent fight with your partner and that lead to a devastating breakup. Sure it was all fun and games before and during the early parts of the relationship, but then you only get to know each other in the long run and things change. And during those times, you could either learn to love the worst side of him\ her or nag about it, that always lead to an end, and that is just what happened. However he painful part is, going back to those moments where you had been happy, those moments where you had been free with someone, but then s\he just didn’t seem to care enough.
Well, now that you’re single again it’s just kind of hard to get over a break up. Trust me, I know what I’m saying, been there done that, and one of the good things about being single again and going through all those stuff that broke you is that you came up and stood up strong. No, stronger! Those experiences made you who you are, and made you realize that people change. They just do, and no matter what you do you just can’t change that fact. Maybe those changes are your challenges that you got used to those romances and don’t want that to change at all. Well, stop doing that! Remember, sometimes change is good. It makes any relationship stronger.
Since now that you’re single again, there is only one way to get over your break up. That is to go out and have fun! Yes sometimes, well most of the times, you don’t want to mingle with somebody until you got through the breakup blues, but then you have to realize that you have to do it for yourself. You have to realize that all things have its purpose. If you haven’t got your happy ending with them, then for sure you learned something. And the best thing to start doing is to move on with your life it, to go out and DATE!
Yes! Go out and have fun. I know that you’re thinking you’re not ready yet, but you can still go out and date. Go out and date your friends, it will lessen the load you’re bearing. Go out and make new friends. Dating doesn’t necessarily mean you are looking for a new prospect or a new boyfriend or girlfriend. Dating, like any serious relationships, have its many levels too. But in your case, let’s just do the part where in you’re doing it for yourself.
Yes, you are doing it for yourself. You are dating yourself. Kind of complicated huh? But no, it’s not. Doing so makes you realize that you actually lost the person you are by loving someone else too much, thus by going out, you get to know yourself better. Get to know who you are again, the one that was lost and now returning for you to trust and love again. You might realize that your friends might be glad that you’ve joined them after a long time of being with someone. You’ll realize and find relief in their presence because deep down you know they are always there for you.