In a world full of uncertainties, we always keep it to a point in our lives to live it without expecting anything at all from others. Though honestly, it is quite remarkable on how we thought that the people whom we trusted so much, the people who we thought that will always be there, those people whom we thought that will always be just one call away will always, ALWAYS be there, available and just like a superhero, always to the rescue. But then, when things and circumstances happen, we were proven wrong. And just like life, love is also full of its own mysteries, full of its own uncertainties. And with those mysteries, there comes the challenges, the dares, and the undaunted emotions that we kept hidden for such a very long time to share with that special person we’re bonded with to get along or accept those uncertainties, those circumstances that had always been lurking around without us even knowing. With those uncertainties, there lies courage and strength. The courage and strength, those emotions that we kept in our own secret cellar, the emotions and desire that had been waiting for a long period of time for someone to unlock and to set free.
Before falling deeply into love, we have to go to a certain point in our lives and give that certain individual the chance to get to know you and for you to get to know them, get to know each other’s deeper thoughts, know each other’s deeper feelings. Thus, dating comes in. In every aspect of a person’s relationship, or any relationship that is, dating had been the key to get to know the person, any person better. Dating doesn’t only mean you get to go out with a person you’re interested with, no. Dating may come in any form. May it be dating with a friend, a sister or one of your family circles, a colleague or maybe someone you just met through a friend. It had been made to a point that dating was and always will be the key to any successful relationship, may it be the beginning or the end.
As you can see, a person’s life is full of mysteries and uncertainties for honestly, you can never tell what’s going to happen after a minute or even seconds of your life. And one of those uncertainties is the chance to meet someone you can spend the rest of your life with. That certain chance, or you can say circumstance rather, will give you the most life changing events of your life. That circumstance that was made by God can be created once you’ve opened yourself up and let it be free with someone and to spend all your happiest and most miserable days o your life. And the one thing to do so is giving someone a chance to BE a part of your life, giving someone even just a mere hour or two to get to know you, get to know your thoughts and by doing so at least you haven’t been selfish, you’re just testing circumstances life gives you especially when it comes to love.